Whether you are aware of it or not, your low libido, and lack of desire to ‘get it on’ is a red flag of something deeper going on within yourself and within your relationship dynamic.
What frustrates me the most is that almost all of the advice out there puts it all on the woman, with suggestions for her to just “schedule it in” and “fake it till you make it” kind of advice.
But with women, for the most part, we need the emotional connection and safety within the relationship to open ourselves up intimately.
Women want to feel the connection in order to have sex, and men want to have sex to feel the connection.
We are wired very differently. And this is why healing this issue takes a holistic approach, mind body, heart and soul, and a commitment from both partners to shift the patterns that have led to a sexless or close to nonexistent sex life.
Sex is Sacred.
And, many women give themselves in this way, not our of desire to commune in this sacred act, but because they feel like it’s their duty, and they want to keep the peace.
This is one of the ways women betray themselves.So if this is an issue in your current marriage/relationship, you’re going to want to listen to this of the podcast.
There are many layers to healing this pattern, and when a woman embarks of her sexual healing journey, she opens herself up to a healing power she never knew she had.
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